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CFW Bookshelf: “That’s Not What I Said” by Dethra Giles

Dethra Giles’ That’s Not What I Said: Learn Conversational Competence and Change the Outcome is more than a communication book—it’s a field guide for real-life leadership in messy, high-stakes moments. Built on the proven DARE™ Model (Describe, Acknowledge, Review, Engage), this step-by-step approach will shift how you show up in every conversation that matters.

Whether you’re leading a team, navigating relationships, or just trying to avoid yet another workplace landmine, this book will help you stop avoiding, start engaging, and finally get to the real issue.